One day I hope I will obtain the ability to sing or play a musical instrument (that isn't the triangle). When this day comes I will start a band with these new abilities to produce awesome music and that band will be named Sandy Toes.
If you had a friend dealing with the same things, you wouldn’t berate that person, say, ‘You’re not working hard enough,’ ‘You suck,’ or ‘You’re not as good as [whomever].’ You’d offer your friend encouragement, you’d try to point out all the things your friend did right, and how much progress your friend had made.
You should do no less for yourself.Be very careful how you talk to yourself. Because you are listening.